I’ve been thinking of writing this post for a few years now because this is one of the most common issues that people have when studying their charts and I feel like there’s a lot of misconception around the topic sooooo I hope I can give you guys some ideas.
BIAS
As simple as that, people often have issues with taking a step back and really thinking about their life in relation to their charts. This is why astrology consultations (as opposed to reports) are often more advised. For most people, the way they are and the way their lives are is “normal”, especially when we talk about things that are correlated with upbringing and culture. But also, your everyday life.
Just to give an example, I was once studying zodiacal releasing of my sister and I told her “seems like your peak period lasted from your childhood up to your late teens”. She rolled her eyes and said that if that was her peak period then her life’s a failure. But let me tell you how her teens went: she was super popular, everyone had a crush on her, one of her tattoos got an award at an international tattoo convention, she was one of the best dancers in her ballet school, she also has a brief history of being a metal singer and kind of by pure chance performed at Poland’s Woodstock (now Pol’and’Rock – if you know, you know). I am probably missing something but my point is: she cannot look objectively at her life, for her that’s just a normal teenage experience. But also, sometimes people’s current aspirations often don’t align with their past aspirations so when they look back, most events seem bland to them. And that is the case for a lot of folks.
Everyone has that friend who’s always like: “I’m nothing special blehhh” and you just sit there and think of all their talents and accomplishments and just scratch your head. Or that person who always complains about having no money, yet they can live comfortably and can afford most of the things they want. And this goes for everything: talents, personality traits, home life and so on…
Remember, often times it’s hard to really take a look at yourself in the mirror. And even if you do, you still see a flipped version of yourself.
MISINFORMATION, SIMPLIFICATION AND STEREOTYPES
I think this is a big one. And especially if your source of knowledge comes from the internet. When you learn about the signs and their characteristics, it’s crucial to understand the nuances – and people pretty much always forget about it.
Every sign can have a certain trait: being driven is not exclusive to Aries, being sensual is not exclusive to Taurus, being talkative is not exclusive to Gemini and so on – it’s all about the motives and the background of when and how that trait manifests.
For example, sure, one of the negative traits of Taurus is stubborness – because it’s an earth sign and it’s fixed. But Taurus is more than that, it’s not just a one-ingredient sign. No sign is a one-ingredient sign. MOST people will be stubborn in some way: Aries will be stubborn if you won’t let them do what they want, Gemini will be stubborn if you try to undermine their ideas and say they’re wrong, Cancer will be stubborn about their grievances or about holding on to things tried and trusted and so on…
REMEMBER (and I want this plastered everywhere): no sign has the monopoly for anything. This goes the other way around: just because a Virgo was rude towards you, doesn’t mean all Virgos will be rude towards you. NOT ALL *INSERT SIGN*.
Everything has a spectrum and everything has its place. Most Aries Suns are not full of anger and toughness all the time but maybe they love video games and they don’t even realize that they’re relieving their negative feelings by shooting everyone in Call of Duty? Or their job requires some martian energy, movement and discipline? Or they’re very protective over the opressed ones and they’re not afraid to fight for them when needed?
(And so yes, you probably do have that trait you claim you don’t have in a certain context).
ASPECTS TO THE PLANETS AND OTHER INFLUENCES
“I don’t feel like an Aries Sun”, says a person with a Saturn square to their Sun, a Mars in Pisces and a Taurus rising. Well, first of all, I can guarantee you that you do act like an Aries in some ways but second of all – if your fiery and bold passionate lil heart is dimmed and harassed by Saturn, your Sun’s dispositor is in a dreamy and passive Pisces and your Sun is in the 12th house AND on top of that, that slow Taurus rising is really clashing with cardinal Aries, then yes, this can make sense.
What can block or drastically alter a planet’s infuence? Squares and oppositions, a contrasting stellium in another sign or house, sometimes being unaspected or occupying a house that is in aversion to other important points in the chart (so it’s inconjunct), especially to the 1st house – you won’t “see” your planets if they’re in the 2nd, 6th, 8th or 12th house. Alternatively and interestingly, a planet (or more) occupying the 1st house may infuence and distort your view of things where you may not feel or seem to others like a “typical” exponent of your sign. Good example was when people weren’t believing Halsey that she’s a Scorpio rising – and with a stellium in her 1st house I don’t blame them – her persona is influenced by Mercury, Venus and Jupiter, which is a pretty eclectic mixture.
HOUSE PLACEMENTS AND WHAT PLANETS “BELONG” TO
Not every planet talks about you because not every house talks about you. I’ve done two huge articles on house meanings and you can check them out here: PART 1 & PART 2, but to quickly sum them up:
1st: you
2nd: your posessions
3rd: your siblings/cousins, early education and neighbourhood
4th: your family and parents
5th: your children, sex life and fun activities
6th: your employees, pets and health
7th: your partnerships and open enemies
8th: your shared resources and inheritance
9th: your higher education, beliefs, travel
10th: your career and reputation
11th: your friends and networking
12th: your subconscious, loss, succlusion, sickness
So, as you can see, if you, for example, look at the planets in your 3rd house then they are largely talking about your family members or even neighbours. Have loud Aries Mars in the 3rd house but you’re rather introverted and like to be left alone? Well, are your neighbours annoying? Is your neighbourhood a rather loud or even unsafe place? Do you feel a dislike towards your siblings cause they’re always obnoxious when you’re trying to relax and immerse yourself in your favorite book? Are your siblings sporty? Well, that’s your Mars in the 3rd.
Have Jupiter in the 3rd house but you don’t travel too much, you were never top of the class and you’re shy? BUT how about your siblings, cousins or neighbours? Or maybe your school environment was very preachy or you even attended a catholic school? Look at the bigger picture because, newsflash, even your natal chart doesn’t revolve all around you.
TIMING
If we’re talking more about circumstances and events, this is a very important point to understand. You’re not born with a load of experience and unless you’re in your elderly age, you cannot ever say that a certain placement doesn’t apply to you. You have Saturn in the 7th? Well maybe you went through that ONE bad breakup/divorce in your life – obviously you’re not going through it for the eternity. You have Jupiter in the 7th house yet you struggle in relationships? But then you get into one in your 30s or even 40s and it’s with the most jupiterian person in the world and you’re happily together for the rest of your lives. You have Sun in the 10th house but you’re whining that you’re not acknowledged or popular or whatever? Well yeah, you’re just being annoying, you know that not everyone can be a teenage superstar influencer or whatever – climbing the social ladder usually takes decades so don’t even start with this one.
Nothing is constant. Things require time and that time is often influenced by, you’ve guessed it, ✨timing techniques✨ lol. So progressions, profections, transits, time lord periods etc. It may be that you won’t even live enough to actually experience it. Some gain acclaim after they die, soz.
Other times certain events and traits only apply at certain moments in your life. I’ve mentioned my sister and her peak period in her teens. Well, she also happen to have Jupiter – her ascendant ruler – in the 3rd house, which may imply that she had the most luck and positive experiences during her school years. Same with other houses, If you have planets in the 7th house they may only be active while you’re in a relationship. If you have planets in the 9th they may only activate when you’re abroad or during your time in college. If you have planets in the 10th they may only switch on when you’re on a high position career-wise. Not every house speaks of moments in life per se, but some do so keep that in mind.
WRONG HOUSE SYSTEM
Some of you stubborn lil kiddos might hate what I’m about to say… but if you’re using the default placidus, I do encourage you to ✨open your mind✨ and check out your chart using the whole sign system. It’s usually more straightforward and pretty much always more accurate from a constructive point of view.